Our Marriage Ministry here at Calvary La Habra is for all married couples who desire to nourish and strengthen their marriages in a Biblical way.

(if you are a Young Married couple, click here)

If you would like to be a part of our Marriage ministry, fill out the form below to be added to our group:

HEALING CLASSES

Sexual Healing class for Women

Learn more about our Sexual Healing class for Women below. (Sign-ups and details are confidential).

Victory over pornography class for men

Learn more about our Freedom from Pornography class for Men below. (Sign-ups and details are confidential).

Listen to Pastor Lance’s Latest Study regarding Sexual Purity here:

RESOURCES FOR PARENTS

Covenant Eyes: www.covenanteyes.com

Covenant Eyes is a monthly subscription that will monitor your web usage and will send a weekly report to a person that you have chosen to be in weekly accountability. Monitoring your computer and devices can be a powerful deterrent.

Covenant eyes also offers several free resources and downloadable books.

Internet Safety 101: www.onternetsafety101.org

A digitally based internet safety resource designed to educate, equip and empower parents, educators and other adults with the knowledge and resources needed to protect children from Internet dangers including pornography, predators, cyberbullies and threats related to online gaming, social networking and mobile devices

RESOURCES FOR MEN

COMMITTED MEN’S GROUP

Get connected to our Men’s Group here at Calvary La Habra. Learn more HERE

Pure Desire Ministries: www.puredesire.org

They were one of the first and are still probably the best for resources for men currently in the struggle for sexual integrity. They offer in person and zoom small group accountability and curriculum. 

Bravehearts: www.bravehearts.org

BraveHearts is a Christ-centered 501(c)3 non-profit that serves sexual strugglers and their betrayed partners, offering education, mentoring, and community to foster healing & growth.

RECOMMENDED BOOKS

  • Pure Desire: Helping People Break Free from Sexual Struggles by Dr. Ted Roberts 

  • Finally Free: Fighting for Purity with the Power of Grace by Heath Lambert 

  • Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction By Patrick Carnes, Ph.D.

  1. VIMEO - “Real Joy Found In Real Intimacy” Straight talk with men from Pastor Lance // HERE

  2. PODCAST - Broken Vows - for Married couples Johnny & Emily Spigeimire // HERE

  3. PODCAST - Dr. Abujamara.  Finding Freedom from Sexual Sin and Brokenness (w/ Dr. Lina Abujamra) - Ep. 119 // HERE

  4. YOUTUBE - Therapy & Theology with Lysa Terkeurst Proverbs 31 Ministry – “Porn-demic” // HERE

  5. Weekly men’s accountability Groups (affiliated with Pure Desire network) - Men’s Sexual Addiction/Pornography ArmoryOC.com- 

  6. PODCAST - Java with Dr. Juli Slattery // HERE

  7. PODCAST - The Best of You  - Dr. Alison Cook // HERE

 

RESOURCES FOR COUPLES

RECOMMENDED BOOKS

1.     Surrendered Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery

2.     Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery

3.     Holy Sexuality and the Gospel- Christopher Yuan

4.     Intimacy Anorexia- Healing the hidden addiction in your marriage

5.     The Peace Maker- a Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict

Date: September 26-28, 2025

Location: Hilton Garden Inn Carlsbad

Guest Speakers: The Carvers & Stauffers

Cost: $500 (includes hotel, free parking and 2 meals)

$50 SINGLE DAY (Saturday) option available. Call church office.

2025 Marriage Retreat Info

Contact the leaders of this Ministry:

Jon and Charity
Holmes

David and Jen Palmquist